"You are bad at using Provoke"

[Kuwagami]

What I meant was in FFXIV when you Provoke something it places you 1 Aggro Above the highest person on the Mob's threat List, Thus bringing the Mob to you, for a Few Seconds, maybe 2 GCDs and that is the time you have to Take Hate.

I understand Reading inbetween the lines isnt a thing on the FFXIV Forums, but damn such Litterial Nazi's in this thread.

That said, after using provoke you generally have less than a GCD to stabilize hate. You're nowhere near a few seconds, unless your group is very well coordinated

stuff

3) when you died

You shouldn't forget this one, you can always meet bad healers