Hey so I'm just level 50 with my Blm ilevel 52 my questions are

1) Where should I gear up, I used to spam Brayflox hard on my Whm do we still do that or is there somewhere better?

2) after I get my Relic Weapon should I spend my Myth on upgrading the weapon first or buying new gear pieces?

3) Since I will need soooo much Myth where is the best place to farm it in pug groups and how fast does it go up?

4) Now that they changed how Flare works, apparently they nerfed it how should I spam flare in AoE situations?

I have work now so when I come home tonight I'll give this a read and hopefully know what I am grinding for gear thanks

Edit: Also if it is Brayflox please recommend another alternative for when I get sick of running the same dungeon over and over :P