Quote Originally Posted by charlemagne View Post
LOL. I'm kinda surprised people still think this is about being nice to people in dungeons. In four man stuff it seems to me most of the time people follow the convention of dd give it to dd and the tank gives it to the healer and vice versa. In stuff like FL the healers give them to each other.
Personally I just click at random half the time, apart from frontlines where its lala healer> other healer> someone at random if the healers left before I could click.
It is still a bit about being nice, or at least professional. Most importantly, it's about not being an absolute jerk and knowing what to do and playing well with zero drama. I do follow the convention most of the time, unless I find one of the DDs was particularly good, helpful, or less of a jerk than the tank.

Best tips for getting commendations:
1) PATIENCE. Be quick, be forgiving of mistakes, but most important, DO NOT FREAK OUT if people are slow or bad. DO NOT FREAK OUT if the guy is standing in the fire (again). DO NOT FREAK OUT for any reason.
2) KNOWLEDGE. Know the fights, be ready to explain them. Be good at explaining them.
3) SKILL. Know your role, know your job. Be good at it, or at least:
4) FLEXIBILITY. Know when you need to step out of your role. If you're a healer, step into cleric stance if you need to help out the DDs. If you're a DD, be ready to peel off a mob from the healer and kite it (preferably to the tank). In emergencies, be ready to have to do something fast, like insta-rezzing someone who dies because they stood in the fire.
5) FRIENDLINESS. At the very least, take 2 seconds to say "hi", "sup", "yo", or "hey" at the start of the dungeon, and "thanks", "gj", etc at the end. Even if you wiped three times on the first boss.