BLM is THE highest DPS right now, though they are a bit RNG base. In purely stationary fights, a comparable melee will beat you but not by much. In the majority of the fights though, melee won't beat you, the most they will do is around the same damage in some fights. Oh and did I mention that melee still have to deal with more crap than you? Its not as bad as before but they still have to deal with more crap that you do. In aoe damage, its absolutely no contest, BLMs are so far ahead that the others aren't even on the chart.

So yeah, if you want the most OP DPS right now, play BLM. Judging by the sheer amount of BLMs around since this patch, I would say most people already figure this out. Until SE does something about this, play BLM. If SE don't, then BLM forever.