(Message 2/2 since character limit)

Players are impatient in this game and, unfortunately, the game itself has contributed to that downfall. Most of the content in XIV can be completed in 20 minutes or less (even most Coil groups, as we see enrage timers on some floors) leaving an extremely large majority of the player base receiving rewards in a very quick turn around. I don't believe being rude to new players is acceptable, but unfortunately speed is a large factor in a players priorities considering how the content has been played out by the community.

Hope this helps lighten your reaction to those players and makes it less of a headache. See you around =)