This being my first also I did run into some d-bags. But for the most part I have run into more helpful people.. Heck I made it all the way to Halitali before I knew what a tank was. That was where the d-bags were. Once I started to figure out what I was suppose to be doing things were going better. When I made it to Stine Vigil at first I knew I had to watch for the roaming Aevis but I couldn't tell which one it was. When I pulled a whole mob of them, we were able to kill them, but at the next one the healer just stopped healing me and let me die. Then I get, "hey have you ever tanked this dungeon before?". So I said no. Then came all the "omg!" "oh wtf".

So I guess some people just skip their first time into a dungeon and proceed right to having doing it multiple times. Of course I could have flipped out on them and started tearing them a new a-hole. But I kept my composure and pressed on. They proceeded to give advice but in a very condescending rash way. I try to just take it all with a grain of salt.

Luckily the real d-bags for me anyways have been very few. Some people just don't realize that there are people playing a game of this type for the first time, and if you are not up to their standards then you are trash, because again they all forget that they were new once.

Its a fun game, its fun to play, don't let the d-bags ruin it for you. Don't worry about the terms either, I still don't know what most of them are and I have 3 classes over lvl 45, and 2 over 40, and still no clue about alot of things.