I really love to do big pulls as tank or healer (it's just fun for me, I don't care about speed) so it's not like I don't like doing it. But the people who force it on others are complete jerks about it. As healer I was vote kicked because our tank died while we had 2 DPS who were ill suited to even do a speed run (MNK + SMN under geared is not good times). He insulted me and was rude to me beforehand as well for trying to tell him not to speed run.

Leaves a bad taste in your mouth and I rarely even do expert roulette now because of people like that.