I feel your pain! I think it is communication. There is always someone shouting A go here B go here C go here. In reality it's not that simple. Especially when C starts out with 3 people or something random. No one accounts for it they just shout the same stuff at the start. It gets quite after that except for the occasional YOU GUYS SUCK.

I have also been in really good groups where everyone is giving constant updates and the person who steps up in the leader role is being positive and giving guidance. Also making or joining a Frontlines Twin Adder ls and going with a full party is great.

As for supporting other outposts or attacking them I'd suggest making it a party decision. If you break off and everyone goes where the hell ever (which happens a lot for us) you could just end up feeding the other GC points.