Please save "tanks/healers leaving before duty starts".

I've been leveling my WHM through the doody finder lately, because Double SCH in FC parties made me sad. Recently it's been bad party after bad party. Today in particular in Qarn I had a PT with a WAR THM and a LNC. Yeah. Everyone is whining because the tank is dying to bees. They whine because they want me to Esuna their doom, and they whined because they kept letting the faces eat me in the last boss and we wiped 3x.

Soon as I hit 38 I q'd for cutters. It took us literally 5 minutes to clear the room as we had a pld a THM and a terrible mnk. Needless to say I just left. What about you guys?

Tl;dr duty finder is absolutely horrible and filled with idiots.