This is a damn good thread, props OP. There are a few factors. What was their attitude like? Healer with a God complex, sorry man don't bring that shit in here. If they are new did they let us know, did they ask questions, listen to explanations and ATTEMPT to execute? (Attempting to and failing to execute is a lot better than just doing whatever the hell you want imo) If I'm tank, did someone get impatient and pull? - No commendation. Did they go above and beyond? Summoners passing out raises instead of forcing WHM/SCH to is an awesome example. BRD saving his silencing shot to use on spells instead of for DPS? Same with MNK/DRG with their stuns. Aggro management, etc. Does the group speak up and come to a consensus on how they want to run? (SR, big pulls, normal run, watch CS, etc) If anyone disagrees with the majority of the group did they suck it up for the rest of the party?

I guess to sum it up, I want to give my commendation to someone who is friendly and tries his best for the group. Doesn't always have to be successful. I've commended first time tanks/healers/dps in Garuda EX who learned from each mistake and attempted to execute better each time up until timer wore out. Gear and skill only go so far when you have a shit attitude, it especially irritates me when it is focused at a new player. Everyone has been there, so don't be a shit bag.