What makes the random reader think you don't know what your talking about? Your original post.
I further lost faith when someone called you out on not exactly being battle tested in FFXIV, and your respond with 6 other MMO's and how 3 people living in one house means your opinion is valid. This isn't me saying your opinion isn't though. This is me confirming it looks like you haven't had a ton of experience based on what you said.
For example. I love PvP. In all games. I have rose high in rankings, in many games and formats. Here is the past year alone.
Rank 1 in: Skulls of the Shogun, all multiplayer leaderboards.
Rank 1 in Monaco: what's yours is mine 17/32 maps.
5th for 3 lane maps in guardians of middle earth, 32nd for 1 lane maps.
Street Fighter 4: Ranked 1 for arcade score for months straight, 4th best win ratio/rank for Abel.
2nd in our NHL league,
All of that? Means nothing in FFXIV PvP. My 3200 matches in wolves den, and my 40 matches in front lines does though.