the physick + embrace macro works even if you are dpsing you know. if you are dpsing and you hit the macro when you are casting another spell it will not register physick, but will queue embrace as soon as possible. and embrace is a universal skill for both fairies. all you have to do is use the /pac Embrace instead and you can top off tank with embrace as you dps. just remember that if you are using a macro for dps and you use another macro the new macro is going to override the old one.

I dont know how hard it is to be able to change from target to tank (for the embrace macro) then back to the same target of your dps rotation on a controller but i have an utmost respect for competent sch on consoles