Hi Nuko,
your dps greatly depends on your weapon also, just not your overall ilvl. I'll assume you have an i100 weapon of some sort. at i96 and an i100 weapon you should be pulling in the 340-370 range to be considered relevant, this is including the new buffs. (like on a dummy or something.) BLM dps increases in parties due to selene/foe and the int pt buff so anything you achieve on a dummy is very doable on any fight with the exception of fights with breaks such as darnus, ifrit etc.
DRGS and MNKS still beat us in single target, with selene on turn 8 i can currently crank out 470-480 but that still doesnt beat the monk. DRGS will be slightly higher than blm and they'll be increasing bard damage by 10% also, roughly about an extra 38-40 dps. That's pretty balanced since monks hover in at around 500ish, BLM 470ish, DRG 470ish + 35ish for bard, and Brd at around 420ish + dps increasing songs. (max values should be around these numbers)
The added dps is greatly appreciated on savage coils X_X