Hey all! I just got this game and I'm having a few problems. My first character I created was on Mysidia and I couldn't get anyone to answer me so I was having some problems figuring things out. I leveled up a bit, but then started over on Selbina. I still couldn't get anyone to help me or answer me. Most people were crafting, I send them tells asking some questions but no one responded. I know there are a lot of people asking this same thing, but what's a good server to start at where people like to talk and throw out some advice? I chose Ul'dah (is that what it is?) for starting town, I haven't gotten anyone to talk yet. Anyone on a good server that would be willing to give me a few pointers on how to get started? It would be much appreciated! Also, I hear there is a new patch out?

Also, I'm guessing choosing conjurer would be good for me. I really enjoy playing healer class, so I'm guessing this is as close to a dedicated healer as it gets right?
I'm also confused on how to distribute my attribute points. If I'm a conjurer, what should I put the points too first (stat wise). Should I level up to a certain point before working on quests? How many jobs or classes do I need to work with? Or is that up to me? Thanks in advance! I'm anxious to play but I can't get things rolling!