Que balance -> Why I might eventually quit FFXIV

[Kimikryo]

5 hours isn't unheard of for some servers depending on your search options. Searching for only English party through duty finder on Aegis can take much longer than 5 hours depending on the content you're queuing for.

But limiting the queue like that, is your own choosing.
Maybe T4 T5 and primal ex needs people, that at least understand you, but most of the other things are quite self explainable without lots of talking :|