Tanks keep leaving the dungeon

[Ashkendor]

In all honesty though. I think people forgot what gaming was. There are tons of people who take gaming way too seriously, like its a job to them, its their career. I guess some people don't have much in the world, and maybe this is all they have, so they put everything into it, because they have nothing else but this. I mean if I ever get to the point where I am checking out all the other party members gear out to make sure its up to my standards, and leave a dungeon because its not, I'm going to hang it up. That is way too serious for me.

I inspect people when I first go into a dungeon simply so I know how much I can pull at once. I don't want to overpull and tax my healer. So if in the course of said inspection I notice something amiss, you're saying that I should let someone that thinks it's a good idea to spiritbond mage gear on a melee DPS ride on my coattails? Yeah, no. Not happening. To imply that I have no life or something of the sort simply because I require someone to put some modicum of effort into clearing a dungeon that we both queued for is insulting. To go into a dungeon wearing crafting gear or the wrong stat gear is a waste of three other people's time. It means you can't do the job you queued up for. Sorry, but that's terribly selfish and people need to realize that the rest of the playerbase isn't there to carry you while you spiritbond. If you're cool with having people use and abuse you this way, that's completely up to you but please stop with the thinly-veiled insults for those of us that aren't.

Personally, I would've asked the DRG to put on proper gear; if they refused or didn't answer, vote kick. It's not like you're going to wait long for a replacement DPS, and you can easily progress while you wait.