The aesthetician option only pops up in the inn for me. Though, I don't use my inn since they moved the resting bonus for this reason, it would be nice for them to merge them. Also, the exit to retainer selection would be awesome instead of having to re-click the bell. In cities people stand right on top of them and PC's have selection priority for some reason... (why?!)

I would also like to add, I use the escape key to leave menus or go to the current menu's parent (venture window back to retainer window, for example). However, escape cannot close the retainer's dialog bubble. Why not? FFXI was too much keyboard and not enough mouse, FFXIV is the exact opposite. C'mon guys :/