FC Related Question Please Help.

[ken00]

hi im sorry if i posted it in the wrong section but i want to ask for help or just advice about
the current situation of my FC.

the master of our FC recently stopped playing and one by one other members started to leave or quit. suddenly(yesterday) the next person who became master(automatic change of master position if offline for 36days(was it 36?))

(although im an older member and had a higher position but because of some private problem,etc i wasnt able to play FFXIV for 3 months feb->april(FC was made sometime 2013 august))i was one of the members who 1st entered the fc when it was made, all founders currently hiatus or quitted which makes me the oldest member left.)also the current master before she became the master had a higher position than me when i came back.

the next master suddenly said that she will quit once her subscription ends and wants to
break-up　the guild. we have a medium house lot which of course i had money invested.

this next master didnt talk to me and when i talked to her she said that she already talked it out with the other two members. and agreed for the break up. even though i didnt agree for the break-up i tried to persuade her to stop. almost for 5-6 hrs. she suddenly started ignoring me so i contacted the old master and asked for helped, of course he agreed, and when i talked to the current master again and told him that the old master didnt want to break up the guild too, it became an argument and she said she doesnt care.
the argument escalated up to her kicking all the other members. and in the end including me. said she would continue the fc but with other friends*. i just wanted to protect the FC for the other members who might comeback because of 2.3 and i got kicked.

is there something i can do about these..?
it feels sad that i just wanted to protect the FC and this is what i get.

any help or advice is greatly appreciated.

[Kimikryo]

sadly? no you won't be able to do anything.

Welcome to some FC "masters" whose "might" grew over their head which they need to show now.

Welcome to the club.

[Nero]

Report him/her. To me it sounds more like "stealing" the house, including the currency/furnitures. Does not matter if that person is currently FC Leader or not, it is straight against ToS.

[Clavaat]

I'm sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, there is not much you can do. Aside from asking for the Master role, instead of disbanding completely, that was the person in control and has the final say. The best you can do is move on, and try to find something that works for you, and what you wanted out of an FC. Try to join some LS', keep in touch with those that come back.

At the end of the day, this is a social game. It requires people to work together and have mutual understandings. Things happen, people will be people. It's up to you, the person, to decide where you go from here. Best of luck to you.

[micropanther7]

Sorry Ken, but Kimikryo is right :/ I'm really sorry that this happened to you and your FC mates, I would suggest forming your own FC *hugs*

Edited to add: Clavaat brings up a good point, about you being assigned the position of master. but Nero also could be correct sadly, it's proving it that would be the problem, but it is reportable, I forgot about that!

[ken00]

thanks everyone for the reply. it greatly saddens me that it have to happen this way. what i wanted was just to protect the FC where my old mates could come back and have a place to relax too. i will try my shot at the report though and hope that something could be done about it.

[Sadana]

From what I've heard, SE does not get involved in any FC "drama" (even harassment) :/
If I'm wrong on this, please let me know that I've heard an incorrect account from others.

[Clavaat]

From what I've heard, SE does not get involved in any FC "drama" (even harassment) :/
If I'm wrong on this, please let me know that I've heard an incorrect account from others.

I think it depends. If there was a real discussion, and no one was verbally attacked or things were stolen, then it would simply become a "he said/she said". If the chat logs can prove something otherwise, then you may have a case, wouldn't hurt to try.

That still would not bring the FC back if it has been disbanded, unfortunately. Like I said before, it would still be to you to pick up the pieces and decide where you go from there.

[Sadana]

Yeah, sometimes I wonder if more than a few FC "leaders" behave badly in order to get rid of everyone and have the FC house, coffer, etc just for themselves and their friends. I've discussed this on the blogs after hearing some stories similar to the OP's. :/

[ken00]

the FC is still alive and i Screen shotted our conversation.
just in case...