so I'm trying to use my Fairys without them on autopilot, I click to have them on Steady and obey, i thought maybe they won't do anything on that setting but she still heals, i would like to be able to control all the heals its really messing me up, and sometimes when i click for them to Follow behind or Stand there the icon next to their name doesn't change and they still do stuff. im so confused.. it's like no matter what i click they will usually just stay on gaurd and Obey and i cant get it to do something else...am I doing something wrong? should I just have them on auto-piloit? do they have to have two stances? usually right when i summon them they have two, what if i don't want any stances or just one?