This needs to stop !

[TouchandFeel]

This really just seems like a situation of "I want something because I feel its best for me and somebody wants something else because its best for them, but I should get my way."

Keep in mind that if it is a lvl50 doing roulette for tomes or running a low lvl dungeon for a book, they are going want to be in and out as quickly as possible because, well grinding for that stuff can be tedious and nobody really wants to stretch it out any more than they have to.

However if someone in the group is new to a dungeon or asks if they can do a full clear, whatever high lvls be it the tank or whoever, should be willing to help them out and do the full clear, as long as they are polite about it.

Now, IMO killing all the mobs is not necessarily the most effective way to get xp. I find doing multiple quick runs to be more productive for getting drops and xp than more drawn out full clears. If you need or want the achievement for mapping a dungeon, that is a different story and totally valid.

Speaking specifically about Stone Vigil, I feel the side rooms are really not worth it. They aren't necessary for the achievement and the chests in them tend to have junk loot in them that isn't worth the inventory space they take up. Worn chef's apron ... um, no thanks. As to the xp that would be gained by killing these mobs, I stick to my previous statement that multiple quick clears are more productive than longer full clears.

Lastly, if you want to do a dungeon in one specific way, that is what the Party Finder is for. If you are using the Duty Finder, you really need to just adjust to what situation you end up with and what the majority of the group you ended up with wants. This goes both ways, don't force speed runs and don't force full clears, appraise the situation and if in doubt ask what the group would like or be okay with.