This needs to stop !

[Cold_Raven]

If you are a tank how do you handle these situations .....me personally as a Mage I stop healing and tell the tank to go back or we vote !

I am a tank.

I have a few different "default" phases while running a duty roulette.

1. If anyone is not-level-synced... then I try to do a full clear (as much as I can remember, anyway... I don't have all the dungeons memorized quite yet )

2. If everyone is level-synced... then I start to skip side-treasure/mobs but I'll pause after just passing them to see if anyone else starts to go towards the side-stuff and looks all hopeful. If so... then I revert back to doing a full clear. If not... then I run the rest of the dungeon as fast as possible. Well, I still try to keep an eye out to see if anyone starts to go down a side-route or anything... but less so.

Leading isn't about doing what you want and just giving directions.
Leading is about organizing your team to help them out. What "helps them out" is for them to decide. Other players are people, not a bunch of NPCs.