Not sure why this always comes up as a subject. If you don't want to watch videos, go make a PF of like minded individuals, and learn the fight together through experience. It is also very beneficial to join an FC or LS with like minded individuals who will do content with you on a consistent basis, so that you can make progress.

If you don't want people who have no idea of the fight or haven't watched a video, then also make a PF for like minded individuals. Also, joining an FC or LS with like minded individuals to raid with on a consistent basis is very beneficial to making consistent progress.

If you join a DF, you are flipping a coin. Don't expect anything from either side, there are jerks and terribads on both side of the camp, as well as competent helpful people on both sides.

How about both sides give some mutual respect and take steps to both not go in over your head, and not be a condescending dick bag. It'll go a long way to improve relations in this game. Also, just because one douche might have been a douche, doesn't mean the whole community is, and they are very easily blacklisted and ignored. Please exercise this right!