Not my story, but my friend is learning tanking, and I did a run with him of Toto-rak. He's about 27 marauder right now, and asked at the beginning if it was ok to do an XP run because he doesn't want to have to run Toto-rak more than he needs to. Everyone agreed and said that was fine. But near the end, the lancer seemingly got impatient and was attacking things ahead of the tank, including the final boss. The lancer took damage from grabbing initial aggro and was like "..." in chat and my friend apologized even though it wasn't his fault. I mean if you're not going to let the tank pull, don't then say something about how the tank didn't pull. -_-