Just my two cents.

As a new tank (GLD) i found that opening with shield lob then flash then savage blade (non combo, it takes time you dont afford at a new mob) then keep spamming flash and savage blade when appropriate keeps 90% of the aggro problems away.

Of course you need to keep pestering with your equipment to be up to par.

And to be frank. what is the disrespect here? Not easy enough to face roll? Working for the emnity? actually need to engage to do it correctly?