If you wanna drag ass and watch the cutscenes, be prepared to miss pretty much every fight. You can't have it both ways. The duty finder isn't about YOU.

Sounds like you deserved to be kicked if you "ignored" them as you yourself admit when asked to skip cutscenes. I suspect a simple reply stating that you wanted to watch them and to go ahead without you would have been plenty to keep you from being kicked. But that's not what you wanted. You expected the entire party to cater to your specific wants in the DUTY FINDER.

I wouldn't have voted to kick you, I would have initiated the vote...