I'm so tired of folks crying about being "harassed". Raiding content is not Hello Kitty. If you play well you don't get called out on it. The difference between 200 dps and 475 dps is HUGE. That person needs to be told they have to improve. The difference between 450 dps and 475 dps is negligible on all but the hardest progression content, and no pugs are on the bleeding edge of progression where that kind of difference matters. In those cases you are in a progression guild and you relinquished your "right" to complain about "harassment".

This care bear attitude for the rest of the pug content that some players have needs to be kept in check. Forcing other players to waste their time because you are afraid to tell someone they are holding the group back is just much harassment if not more. I agree that players should be kind to one another, but that doesn't mean we should pretend that 200 dps when the average is ~400 should be perfectly acceptable.