Quote Originally Posted by AerysDarkstrike View Post
The most you get out of a DF group usually is "hi" at the start, and sometimes not even that, maybe a "GG" at the end. There's not much if any helping going on. Maybe a quick "Who wants to main tank" conversation. Those are not the people who will calmly and politely explain how to get better.
I really disagree on that.
I'm one of those that don't start a conversation in DF. I don't care, i don't know if others whould like it and i'm not a talkative person even in real life. So in DF i just noramlly shut up. But I answer if others start a conversation and if i see someone in need of explenation i give it out (i hope) nicely

Like yesterday. I was DR low level as tank 41. I got tam tara (again...). We started and healer goes on and pull more mobs. I get aggro and me and healer get to hold on nicely so we started doing the dungeon with multiple pulls. I was with a THM and a LNC. I don't know LNC as class but i saw the THM using fire with 6+ mobs. I asked "Fire 2 plz" and the answer was "No.". It got me off balance, we made it to first boss, i saw that the enimity built from other 2 where almost null. I was getting maim up then spam OP unless out of TP then i stayed put until full TP again (defensive cooldowns when avaible obviusly) and when i was full TP their aggro was not even 1/4. After first boss i said that Fire 2 on 6 mobs was better then fire. The answer was "I know". It was getting me mad and i asked why he used fire then. He answered that he didn't want to "waste" his rested bonus on that dungeon and i had to deal with himplay that way or kick him. I could comply with his request, his attitude was pushing me to do so but it was clear he didn't know how the rested bonus worked so i keeped calm and explained. After that he started use fire 2 sometimes. Their aggro still sucked and LNC was able to be close out from final boss. It was a painful run but i didn't kick anyone even if they sucked and THM was rude even if i'm not a talkative type and i usually don't chat asaid for hi or gg

So don't make generic, stupid and wrong assumptions