Why doesn't anyone play on the weekends?

[Nukocafe]

Maybe if you transfer to Tonberry or Masamune you will get more parties on the weekends. Also sargatanas has plenty of weekend parties ^.^

Japanese servers lag me like hell so that would be out of the question. Plus I already bought a house & all so I won't be transferring at this point.

Also reading everyone's responses it makes it seem like this game isn't "fun" but it's a chore or a job.
To me playing FF14 is more fun than going to a park with screaming kids and barking dogs so that's why I feel like "enjoying it on the weekend" seems more fun than during the weekday when I'm too tired after work to think straight. (；・∀・)