Sigh lol , some tanks like to over pull etc. when bodies plop due to lag, not dodging, or when i'm too busy healing the tank or the target that the mob is smashing, i try my best to subtract mobs from whoever is getting smashed.
As i have a lot of vit for a healer i tend to see myself as the 2nd tank. With how easy us whm can grab due to our emnity fluctuations, i would grab whatever leftovers and try to tank them myself till the tank gets back or whatever. That's when i will of course do the fluid aura repose thing. But what irks me is when dps go derp and start bashing everything in sight and waking stuff. Ffs i'm trying to survive the mob and u r just making it harder. But i been in these situations a lot so i come prepared lol