What you're looking for is a small FC. Large FCs tend to have more nameless faces then anything. Mid sized FCs are kind of the same, but not as bad. However, the issue with mid and large size FCs(and people can argue and call me wrong all they want, but it just shows they're in denial or not paying attention) there will always be members that are alienated. There will always be at least 1 or 2 groups(more depending on FC size) in the FC that are tight knit and gravitate toward one another. Its understandable that they do this, not calling it a fault, but it does alienate others, and sometimes it leads to conflicts with people outside of one of those cliques.

Your best bet is to find a small FC as they'll be more situated with what you're looking for.