It's exceedingly difficult for me to dodge anything due to latency. I started noticing right around, I don't know, Titan HM.

It's really demoralizing to be the target of frustration from your peers. After a while, you can say, "LAG!" until you're blue in the face- But your mates will just start to think you are a burden.

BCoB is an absolute nightmare for me, so I don't do it. In Titan HM, if I at least reacted within half a second I would make it. BCoB turn 2 and beyond? Absolutely no hope of dodging. I'm serious. Unless I try to anticipate, but that's hard to do when you have to stand still to cast.

I don't mean to complain, and I'm sorry, but I wanted to back up the OP. You're not alone.