I was doing Haukke Manor HM run earlier today with a group. Upon the start of the dungeon everything went well or at least I thought it was going well. Our DPS was comprised of a MNK and myself (BLM). I am not sure if the tank noticed this but the MNK only had 3200HP and I have 4931HP on my BLM and the healer had 2991HP (SCH). The tank asked me to use my aoe abilities so as to make the dungeon go faster. I died many times and we weren't even at the first boss yet. The healer couldn't heal through all of the dmg, the tank wasn't keeping trash off of me and I got thrashed every time lol. Knowing that the MNK has little aoe and the healer is relatively new to the dungeon as he stated so in the beginning, I told the tank that I refuse to use my aoe's anymore. After finally making it to the second boss fight and killing ash the tank started trash talking me and the voted dismissed me from the party because I wouldn't use my aoe's anymore. Can someone please tell me what I did wrong?