And also, dont forget you aren't locked forever in the FC. I am in my 5th FC. Some previous ones just were not right for me (or me for the FC). I am friends with people still in old FCs and we hook up for content - so leaving an FC does not mean there is hate!

Random Shouts in towns usually have a sales pitch, so try out what you like, or what makes you laugh....and dont be afriad to leave if it doesnt turn out so rosey