I don't understand...

[Gormogon]

Trolls exist.

Yet you go an party with them by choice. Way to troll yourself.

Bad pulls=pulling more than you can handle. Which can happen when the tank isn't aware of patrol mobs. Anyway, if the tank is utterly hopeless and won't listen your options are kick or abandon, yes. I'm not going to spend an hour on something that should take half that time because somebody doesn't want to learn thier role. If they're receptive I'll stick around. Otherwise? I can be doing something else.

That's usually how it is. Sadly the people here want to force some brick wall to suddenly sprout apples.