Quote Originally Posted by Foo01 View Post
There is nothing wrong. But want is "kindly giving advice" from your perspective is "angry orders or busy body nanny state" from another. So it is very subjective what counts as kindly advice and what is not offensive to others.

But it should be obvious and self-evident that "being a kind and caring human being and trying to help others" would not demand other players to optimize their DPS and play like some robot doing everything a close to perfect as possible, and certainly would not get mad at them for 1 mistake and kick like the elitist do.

But rather "being a kind and caring human being and trying to help others" would mean it is ok to go slower, not speed run 100%, carry some of them sometimes when you can etc. And it would mean not be so demanding of them like the OP wishes. So what if their DPS is not on the high end, are you going make an issue of it and make everyone else feel bad?
This is the second time you question the general assumption as to what is asking in a normal or kind manner. I think everyone knows how giving advice kindly sounds. Even the ones that boss people around do. There is no need to point out it's subjective. It's sad that Tiggy had to go through an example just to make sure you were on the same page.

The OP's title is "I don't understand". He is asking why. He does not understand why people would not try to use better rotations. It's the same "why" the other side of the story thinks: "why would you want to max dps, sit back and relax". The fact that his side made a thread about it, does not mean he's wrong and all the others are victims. They think the exact same way as some have pointed out here, let's not get things one sided here.

He clearly states he does not need to 100% speed run. He also asks questions why certain jobs do so and so. I have yet to see the part where he damands things. Is his tone kind? I guess not. Do I understand his frustration? Yes.