I don't understand...

[Ghastly]

Please bring that attitude of "just play to have fun, don't care what other people say" to a single player RPG please. FFXIV: ARR is multiplayer game

But it's not the military either
Freedom of expression and choice is the way to go. Let people play how they want to play.

Duty roulette isn't the place to judge others. End game dungeons is another thing. But stuff like Brayfloux or other dungeons like that even in hard mode is not what should get you upset.