No, not at all unless you're not paying attention. There's two trackers that give us visual feedback of where we're at on Emnity levels. One is a numbered list, the other gives us an idea of if we're moving up or down on that list. If you keep an eye on those two trackers, it's stupidly easy to manage our aggro. Anyone who does either doesn't know about them, isn't paying attention to them, or just generally doesn't care.