Bards and BLMs ... is hard to control your aggro?

[Nevik]

People not using their quelling strikes properly. That, and I'm convinced that there are players out there oblivious to the hate meters under their name.

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that and the fact that there are players that don't give a damn, I know people that would actually TRY to steal hate from tanks, which is probably another topic... but one thing I would suggest is if you know you're out geared by the DPS in your pty, just kindly highlight that point and let them know to just wait a couple seconds before attacking, in my experience most groups won't have a problem with that ...