From what I seem to be experiencing lately, blaming the tank can also amount to 'go to my pace or don't go at all', I've had a few runs now on the lower geared places that pretty much amount to me being called a 'p*ssy' because I don't want to pull the entire dungeon in one run, and it wasn't even that they wanted me to do that. It was that I was being told, not asked. Doesn't ruin my day any to leave, I'm not gonna sit there and act like I'm fine with being bossed around because I don't want to SR everything under the sun because I can. Really, is it so hard to go "Can you pull everything, please?" instead of 'pull all' and then have the healer and one of the DPS grab everything anyway?

Oh well, not my concern. I'm not gonna take that sort of crap.