Rude people in dungeons.

[Taecyeon]

I'm pretty new to the game and learning everyday I recently started doing the dungeon quest and in the first one as I am just learning made a couple of mistakes. The tank there starts spamming "NOOB"..."NOOB"..."NOOB" I said well yes I am new and asked for advice and he said "Just learn how to play NOOB or get out"! Nobody said anything (advice or anything really)... except well NOOB... I battled through and went to the next dungeon basically the same thing happened...

I know random groups for dungeons is hit or miss but it just makes you feel bad and I think makes a lot of people feel worried about grouping up because they will be ridiculed.

wish some people where more helpful...

I guess I need to join a good FC on Jenova.

Good luck and happy adventuring

[Maero]

Very sorry to hear your bad experience, there are many jerks out there.
Experience shows those that usually complain are first to die
Heck i know a healer who will specifically not heal that person if they are being rude which i think is what i would do if i was a healer.
Sounds like it would be better for you to find a Free Company that helps players progress
Best of luck

[bdp12]

Heck i know a healer who will specifically not heal that person if they are being rude which i think is what i would do if i was a healer.

Good strategy here, but if your tank is the problem, not so successful.

[Desidious]

This is why I love doing low level roulette with my tank. Got to spread goodwill and cheer when there's these types of folks corrupting your dungeon runs. Hopefully your luck will get better.

[Sagittarian]

This is why I love doing low level roulette with my tank. Got to spread goodwill and cheer when there's these types of folks corrupting your dungeon runs. Hopefully your luck will get better.

^^ that exactly

[Vynym]

This is why I love doing low level roulette with my tank. Got to spread goodwill and cheer when there's these types of folks corrupting your dungeon runs. Hopefully your luck will get better.

Heya! I'm so glad to see there are more kind people out there!

I personally like to do the low level dungeons in my spare time or for roulette because it gives me the opportunity (more often than not) to welcome newer people to the game! Most often I find that I am able to impart some knowledge to the new players. Frequently I find myself teaching low levels about limit breaking and how to use it. I guess I feel like it's just my way of giving back to the community and spreading good will to new players. We need more people doing that. Really.

[NorthernLadMSP]

There's a lot of rude people and some really nice people. Some of you may not like to hear this, but in my personal experience, roughly 80-90% of the people that are rude, disrespectful or demeaning are tanks. They are also the class that drops instantly from a dungeon that's not to their liking, leaving everyone else either stranded or having to leave and sit and wait in DF again (which is disrespectful of others' time, in and of itself). Happens more and more each week. To be honest, it's really made me get to hate the role of tanks.

In my mind, I compare it to used-car salesmen. You know there are probably some genuinely good, honest used-car salesmen out in the world, but you have personally seen so many greedy, dishonest ones, that you generalize. Basically, there's a very real reason that bad reputation exists.

[Konsentrate]

That sucks, sorry to hear it. I would only suggest starting from the beginning with a mention that you are learning. Shouldn't matter really but the game has some bad apples who really give themselves too much credit. I also like to join to help people, hopefully you meet some others in your future DFs.

[Shmunkster]

I am sorry you had that experience, OP. it makes me sad, and embarrassed on behalf of all us nice peeps. Trust me, there are plenty of nice people out there, I swear!!

Sounds like the dude was a complete ass. This is why I continue with my campaign for a /punch in the face Emote.....if I was in your group, I woulda done that to the douche.....maybe even spammed it.

[KingOfAbyss]

There's a lot of rude people and some really nice people. Some of you may not like to hear this, but in my personal experience, roughly 80-90% of the people that are rude, disrespectful or demeaning are tanks. They are also the class that drops instantly from a dungeon that's not to their liking, leaving everyone else either stranded or having to leave and sit and wait in DF again (which is disrespectful of others' time, in and of itself). Happens more and more each week. To be honest, it's really made me get to hate the role of tanks.

In my mind, I compare it to used-car salesmen. You know there are probably some genuinely good, honest used-car salesmen out in the world, but you have personally seen so many greedy, dishonest ones, that you generalize. Basically, there's a very real reason that bad reputation exists.

Glad to be part of the 10-20% ^^

OP - Sad to read that, especially when you start. I believe you must be on PS4, kudos to you, learning the skills and all on a controller (which i've tried on my PC - awesome! ^^) is no small task, as well as learning the rest of the game at the same time.

a good FC in Jenova would definitely help. if you can make a 4 and 8 group with people in the same needs than you, you won't have to deal with a random person from another server.

Don't give up, the game is good, some players are worth the pain comgin from the rude ones.

Make sure you state when you begin a dungeon/trial that you are new, take screen shots of bad behavior, and report.

Good luck.