Older Gamers Looking for a Home

[TherenM]

Hello,

My husband and I are in our 50's and we love MMO"s. We are enjoying FFXIV ARR very much. A little about us:

We each have 4 classes at level 50, and three crafting skills each at 50. Our characters have gear between i80 - i93, with most at i90>. We have 2 SMN's, 2 BRD's, MNK, WAR, WMN, and lancer.

We play most days of the week. We are pretty much free to play on weekends. We like to socialize and joke around.

Problems:

Being over 50 it seems that the FCs we have joined are ~ 18 - 35 yrs. Sometimes I think people feel like they are playing with their parents. We feel a little isolated and would like to find a FC on a NA server that has older gamers, is fun, not too serious, active, and looking at end-game progression.

We are presently on Coeurl and would move the whole show to another server if we found the right FC. We have successfully ran guilds in the past and decided we don't have time to do that anymore.

Older Gamers Looking for a Home

[Zepheron]

Been there done that! Check us out on Gilgamesh. People of all ages all time zones relaxed atmosphere with serious raiding on the side.

[Romndragon]

Or you could join Gravity <Demi> in Adamantoise. We have people of all ages with and without kids. We're a nice bunch. Some noisier than others. We're also a good progression group as well. Hit me up if you're interested.

[Platinum_Disco]

Or you could join Gravity <Demi> in Adamantoise. We have people of all ages with and without kids. We're a nice bunch. Some noisier than others. We're also a good progression group as well. Hit me up if you're interested.

15/F/Cali is my philosophy online.

[Merryl]

I see members of your fc quite often when I'm in Revenant toll. Most of us are working up to endgame.
I'm going on 42 and we have another member who is 50ish.
We're almost to rank 4, not even a week into forming the Knights of Urth fc "KOU"
I noticed that you may have alternate characters that you might not take with you move servers...I myself moved a character to coeurl to play with this group of good yet casual players. We might be what you're looking a for.

[Zepheron]

Theren,

I haven't heard back from you since your original post so either you haven't been on or you found a new home. I started to question the wisdom of ever telling anyone my age. ( similar to you and your husband) Then it occurred to me an old saying. If you aren't having any fun with the people you hang it with its time to hang out with different people.

Since moving servers I have found many players with families, multiple sibling members, as well as partner teams. Age isn't an issue and they freely accept mine and even joke about it sometimes.

Our group places emphasis on group respect, community, player support and also on achieving raid caliber experience and gear for our members. If that appeals to you, seek it out be it with our group or any other you may join.

We hope to see you here. If not, don't settle for anything less than what you seek to enjoy. That's what we all pay our subs for. :_)