Sadly customization is a Female character pro, being a Male character gives you very limited options for customizing in almost every way. SquareEnix isn't at fault for this either a lot of companys that have both gender options in their games favor the Females.

I said it before and I will gladly repeat myself, the urge to be a Lalafel forced me into the Male role. As a guy, being a Female Lalafel makes me feel dirty lol.