Return/Raise controller derps

[Nghthawk]

NO, we don't need more check and balances because you or someone else is in a hurry. SLOW DOWN!!!

[Fynlar]

What's annoying is how hitting the cancel button by accident will close the Raise popup AND cancel your Raise status. If you were opening the chat log to see things that were said or to look for whatever it was that killed you (wtf else are you going to do while dead?), it's easy to do something like this. FFXI never allowed you to cancel your Raise by accident in this fashion, so to me this feels like they went a step backwards in design.

It should remain as a notification, like a party invite, unless you actually decline the Raise.

Another thing this is a problem with: vote dismisses/abandons.