You know, my problem is this:

As a WHM, I get yelled at for a lack of dps if I don't do more than two Holys.

As a BRD, when WHMs spam Holy, it's not a problem to give them Ballad even with Battle Voice. The way I see it, their Stun and aoe damage is more valuable than just my aoe. I'll gladly take a loss of damage considering the WHM is picking it up and I helping them do so.

This game is getting frustrating; you're yelled at if you do something or don't do something. And not to come at you negative, Whatley, but songs ARE part of what BRD is for. So many BRDs want to be high on the damage charts but ignore their responsibilty. I hear NO BRDs complain about using Requiem. Why? Because it does not lower their own damage.

If I see a WHM spamming Holy and the PLD spamming Flash, I WILL put up Ballad.
If I see a WAR spamming Overpower and the DRG spamming his aoe move, I WILL put up Paeon.

Again, I get trash-talked because I'm killing my damage, but I don't care.