God I hate the fact that (in my personal experience) 90% bards and blackmages forget they have quelling strikes. If you insist on going all out in the first 5 seconds of battle, at least have the decency to use quelling. It isn't a sign that you are a good DD if you pull threat from the tank as so many people have gotten into their heads. It also isn't a sign that the tank is bad if you pull threat from them. There are a lot more things a tank needs to watch out for than a DD, specifically when it comes to AOE pulls and they don't need their job made harder. I make a wish every night before bed that people will eventually stop thinking everything is a race and realize that waiting 5 seconds before you pop your cooldowns make life easier for everyone.