When I played tank on Phoenix I had to party with people with 'crap' DPS but I never told them they were noobs nor did I quit the dungeon half way through. My DPS in that dungeon run wasn't anywhere near 'crappy' nor was it a painful experience as we took each boss very easily. My actual point was that just because someone isn't in full myth gear or whatever doesn't mean people have the right to be rude and obnoxious. Especially when it was the 'crappy dpsers' who survived the first boss (and killed it I might add) and the tank who died first....

I do understand the difference between that and yes some people do indeed need to be told sometimes but I think that would work best if people actually didn't go straight for the word noob and actually offered suggestions instead of unconstructive criticism.