How to stop a stalker?

[Nephera]

Not getting the full story.

It's true, we're not. But following someone around being a pest is never really justified.

In FFXI ive seen dudes fork over loads of gil to chicks then chicks dump them when they run dry and claim they are being stalked.
Even getting help through game and getting promises to them and then disappear and guys go looking for them because of those promises.

While this probably happens sometimes, it's an anecdotal example and is symptomatic of a different problem which can be verified through chat logs by a GM.

Someone don't stalk for no reason unless something happened, like I said you just don't join shell and guy goes banana's over a girl character that looks like all the rest.

Many stalkers suffer from profound mental illness that can give root to obsession with little or no catalyst or basis.

if they are telling the truth, then the guy is crazy but that's hard to believe when every model in game is the same or they let them know they were a girl in real life or gave some reason.

The focus of obsession can be many different things not just the physical beauty of one's character model. You're really pigeonholing the situation.

I have seen people jump servers, quit and even make post about how they were used and followed the person telling them sorry and they GM them.

Anecdotal again, this is not necessarily what happens in every scenario.

Don't wanna give name because why? so someone dont get the other side of the story.

As someone pointed out to you they don't want to name and shame on the forums as they can get in trouble for that. If you do just a little bit of research you can figure out who is being talked about.

And the long and the short of it is yes, we dont have the full story so you should keep the victim shaming and generalizations of the situation to yourself.