How to stop a stalker?

[ShadowHunterrX]

Also like someone said before. We dont have the whole story , the OP is placing her as the victim and I have a feeling that she started to have *fun* with this guy and suddenly go in avoid mode for some reason. The *stalker* is still thinking they are having fun.

I was in the another spot a few months ago , same LS and stuff. So I deleted and blacklisted this person , but i still ran into her sometimes. Once unblacklisted when i saw her atma farming and asked how she was doing nothing much was very friendly and stuff , ofcourse blacklisted her again. The problem was i didnt see her talk in the LS and we reacted it seems on the same stuff , but she taught I was attacking her al the time or stalking everytime she respone even i didnt she her talking. ( I heard from another peeps ). O well that stuff happen if you were on very good terms ones. Fault on both sides.

[Wildsprite]

So I was friends with this character for a while, but then I wanted to go into another FC, and ever since I've been stalked and get almost daily tells sent to me about the goofiest stuff, saying things like "it's our destiny to be together" and "I want to cling to my friend all day." I ran out of patience with this person and have now blacklisted them, and now they follow me around, dance on stuff outside of my house, and is just an all-around nuisance. Not to mention that their attire is always easy to spot anywhere around, and the emote spams they do announce their presence way in advance.

I won't say the name of this person, to prevent giving them more attention (I'm sure you can guess if you're on Midgar), but they've become a real creep and won't get the message that I want nothing to do with them. I've sent a harassment report already, and will send more each time I see this person stalking me.

So how do I get rid of a stalker that won't take a direct message to go away?

okay so some questions spring to mind after re-reading this after some of the responses such as this one

Also like someone said before. We dont have the whole story , the OP is placing her as the victim and I have a feeling that she started to have *fun* with this guy and suddenly go in avoid mode for some reason. The *stalker* is still thinking they are having fun.

I was in the another spot a few months ago , same LS and stuff. So I deleted and blacklisted this person , but i still ran into her sometimes. Once unblacklisted when i saw her atma farming and asked how she was doing nothing much was very friendly and stuff , ofcourse blacklisted her again. The problem was i didnt see her talk in the LS and we reacted it seems on the same stuff , but she taught I was attacking her al the time or stalking everytime she respone even i didnt she her talking. ( I heard from another peeps ). O well that stuff happen if you were on very good terms ones. Fault on both sides.

this blurb is to the OP
did you flat out tell that player to go away, that you wanted their advances to stop? cause if you didn't then I think perhaps you should atleast try this and see what happens. if that works you won't even have to blist them. if not you at least told them so they aren't thinking you are just playing hard to get. some people don't even realize they are stalking and will stop when it's pointed out to them. but if you say nothing and just blist them they might just think they are having fun

[ShadowHunterrX]

okay so some questions spring to mind after re-reading this after some of the responses such as this one


did you flat out tell that player to go away, that you wanted their advances to stop? cause if you didn't then I think perhaps you should atleast try this and see what happens. if that works you won't even have to blist them. if not you at least told them so they aren't thinking you are just playing hard to get. some people don't even realize they are stalking and will stop when it's pointed out to them. but if you say nothing and just blist them they might just think they are having fun

No , This is a story the another way around. The girl taught i was stalking her. So this i kinda the view of a *stalker*.

[Wildsprite]

No , This is a story the another way around. The girl taught i was stalking her.

err I probably should have stated that blurb was to the OP >_>
so sorry for the misunderstanding. corrected my post

[alhandra]

ive learned more about psychology and the nature of weirdos by playing MMO's than in any college course ive ever taken on the subject.

[NinjaTaru72]

What I find bad about this whole thing is that she's not only being stalked, but that gm's have done nothing

[Leigaon]

What I find bad about this whole thing is that she's not only being stalked, but that gm's have done nothing

That's b/c the GM is the stalker in the first place..and there's my M. Night Shyamalan twist!

Tell him you're a guy..problem solved.

[Skivvy]

That's b/c the GM is the stalker in the first place..and there's my M. Night Shyamalan twist!

Tell him you're a guy..problem solved.

I find having a Husband and baby to be an excellent repellent. Although with how long this has gone on, it may be a little weird and unbelievable if they suddenly pull the "I'm a guy!" or "I'm married" card...

[Charisma]

What I find bad about this whole thing is that she's not only being stalked, but that gm's have done nothing

Maybe because, teleporting to the same places as another person, and doing emotes to them, is not violating the rules?
Just because someone feels harassed, doesnt mean its harassment at all.

[fynnn]

READERS OF THE FUTURE: Welcome to this historically important Midgardsormr thread! I hope you enjoy reading about what it was like to play on this server before the great Banana crisis of 2015, Historia all Fantasia-ing into female Roegadyns, etc. Learn from the OP's experience and always be vigilant of the yellow one, who I assume will still be haunting Midgardsormr when you read this.