after relogging 1,000 times 'cause the the game doesn't let me go afk

I decided to sign up on the forums and make my first post

Xbox 360 wireless controller- Cant go afk from the game or the controller stops working, please fix this
I used a controller fine in FFXI.

ps.only 2 things making me want to log out - this problem, and the main Thannalan music, puts me to sleep
enjoying being able to seek party and aa etc.