How to advise hostile tanks?

[Ashkendor]

A lot are making just for fast queue times, don't know how to tank and don't want to learn.

As someone that mains PLD, this kind of attitude is really disappointing to me when I see it. I take pride in my ability as a tank. When I dodge an AoE, I make sure to step back in front of the mob. I silence/stun whatever AoE's I can. Hell, if I see a melee dps get slammed I'll Cover them. Generally, I just try to do everything in my power to make things easier for the party, because of this exact sentiment:

Well said. Helps to remember that the party's goal is the completion of a dungeon/trial in their enjoyment of the game, not who's better.

Seriously, queueing for a dungeon should be fun. It shouldn't be a completely miserable experience. It should be four people working together toward the common goal of clearing the instance, not three people having to deal with one complete asshole that just wants fast queue times and can't be bothered to learn to play.

[Yumi_umi]

I'll never understand why most tanks refuse to use cover, especially in pvp.
But as a healer i will threaten them to let them die if they continue to act that poorly. I can tank dungeons with my 6100 + hp now. I also has swiftcast now :3 ♪（ｖ＾＿＾）ｖ (・ω・)ノ
( swiftcast + stoneskin or surecast + stoneskin or PoM + stoneskin )
I will completely disregard them if they have coil gear on and barely have no idea on tanking basics.
Tanks are suppose to be tanking mob attacks not the accusations from the party.

[wicked-one]

Since the benefits they impemented for Tanks, everyone hops on the fast queue lane...

bad players being bad players since beta 0.01, but with a tank failing, it just weights more...

We kicked a DD last week in a roulett grp who was clearly trolling... pulling all first, ignoring numbered marks, insulting me for not healing him, cause i refused like he refused the advice ("see i****, i am taking damage" "childish ret**** not healing me".. blah blah...
and cause DD´s are like sand on the beach, we voted him out and had fun for the rest of the dungeon ^^

sure, you could abandon, eat the 30 minutes and do other things in between, vote for abort (likely, your other teammates don´t like this as well),... or ignore him entirely, finish the instance as good as it gets, and make something of it.

Always remember, it´s just a game, take the most of fun out of it... one of it, making funny stories about not-good-players in forums ^^